It's only normal to live in a household where your parents are constantly arguing. Whats not so norm is struggling with the emotions of watching your parents relationship deteriorate. When you cant seem to go to one parent in fear of "taking sides" who can you look to? Well, if you have siblings, they are the BEST support sytem. Even if you don't have a great relationship with your siblings, its ironic how parents fighting can bring siblings closer together. What I do is have a little pow wow! It may sound cheesy now but seriously, sit down and talk to them. When I have these conversations, I just say that no matter what we need to stick together and behave better to keep drama on the LOW. If you don't have siblings, best friends or believe it or not a sports coach or anyone you trust. Having someone who you have a strong relationship with will definitely contrast to the less than perfect relationship of your parents! Not an expert but I know what helps me through it all :)
Sincerely,
Fibi D